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Anything is possible…for some.  You know why only for some?  Because those that truly believe, live, and be in the thought that anything is possible, without a shadow of a doubt, find ways and find open doors to back up their belief that anything is possible.

What you think is what you become. If your mind is in a constant state of fear and worry, then your life will have constant worry and fear in some way.

Yet if you believe that there is a way in anything that you do, even if you can’t see the way it can happen, you are setting in motion thoughts and belief that all will unfold to there being a way.

Don’t you see how essential it is to train the mind to create a positive mindset each and every day? Even in times of challenge, you can still see the positive in an experience.

Anything is possible my friend. I know it, I’ve lived it, I trust in it, and I believe it.  Life truly has never let me down because I know that every experience is taking me to the best for my life and life does just that for me.

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In every situation, moment, experience, and encounter; the Universe always has your back. If things go awry then just know and trust that the Universe has your back and keep your positive vibrations up. The Universe is just responding to your experiences and the feeling and thought you put into them, and sending them back to you in some way.  If things are feeling negative, then you can let go of the thought of negative, direct your focus to what is positive within it all, and remember that Universe has your back.

Things will change for the better when you know and remember the Universe loves you and supports you in all you do and say.

The Universe always has your back.



There are times where we can’t predict what our day will bring. Even in a day that is all routine, we may have a life challenge pop out that changes the day and even who we are.

In those moments, it can be hard to remember that we have a choice in how we handle or think in a challenging experience.

Experiences that shake our very core of being, are experiences where we learn and grow the most in spirit.  And how we handle the experience with our thought and feeling, is the direction in which life will go.  Most challenges bring about change.  They help us to let go of what no longer serves us within and creates an open door to new possibilities and new beginnings.

When a challenge comes into your life that you have no idea what will happen, just keep in mind and heart that ‘this too will pass.’  And keep in mind that where you take your thoughts is a part of how the challenge unfolds.

When facing a challenge, the Universe always has your back, my friend. Know, trust, and believe in a positive outcome that is the best for all involved.

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Ask yourself when you are complaining about the little annoyances in life, if it will matter five years from now.  You know, the trash spilling on the floor, or your significant other chewing loudly, or any of those little things we get all annoyed at. Is it really that big that you want to complain and build resentment? Often times, it is the small annoyances that build into big resentment.

It really won’t matter in a year from now.  How about shifting your focus toward what you appreciate in life? How about knowing that we all have annoyances but we don’t have to focus on the negative.  We can focus on the positive and the good little things instead.

Let the annoyances go.  We all have them so why not give others a break?  And while you’re at it, give yourself a break about those things that you are annoyed at that are your own qualities.

Live life in appreciation and let go of annoyances my friend.

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There are some challenges in our lives that just seem too much to handle and when we get in that state of mind and heart, then we sometimes can automatically let our thoughts, emotions, and actions let them do what they will which usually consists of worry, fear, concern, frustration thoughts and feelings. Negative thought can take hold. But when we let our thought go on automatic, then we are not being conscious of our thought so it runs amok and that only creates more to deal with.

You do have a choice. You can take on that challenge with a positive attitude and mindset. Even if it is tough, as you deal with all the details of the experience, you can still be conscious of your thought and take it in a better direction then letting it loose.

Ask yourself what you can appreciate or feel good in the moments.  Ask yourself how you are feeling within. If you are feeling off, then take a breathe in and exhale out the ‘off’ feeling; and in the next breathe in, feel yourself breathing in calm, balance, and solutions. Keep shifting your focus in a more positive state as you take care of what is happening. Think about those that are there helping you to appreciate. Open your eyes and heart to all around you that makes you feel a little better about it all. Maybe someone gives you a smile or maybe helps you with a task.  Or maybe they are just there…

Take on an attitude of ‘this too will pass’ and keep a balanced feel within.

Yes, you can still be positive and feel good in a challenging experience. You get to choose. Don’t let outer circumstances take you down a negative feeling path. Take hold of your thoughts and create a positive vibration in all that you do.  It will create an easier feeling experience.

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When you are wanting something to happen in life, do you expect the best case scenario or the worst?  Do you kind of think it will happen or do you know, without a doubt, it will happen for you?  And when you think about it, do you feel good about it or feel negative about it?

Expect more.  Expect more than the best. Expect that, however it comes to you,  it will come. If your mind goes to the negative and worries, then shift your focus back to what you expect to happen and not what you don’t want to happen.

Keep focusing your energy on the best, more than the best, the best for all involved, the best case scenario. If life seems to be going down a road you don’t want, then expect that the road you are on is a part of getting you to where you want to be. Then head back to focusing on a positive mindset as the  road moves and changes.

Expect more my friend. This Universe is on your side and wants you to have the best in life. The Universe gives to you what you are putting out in vibration,  If you fake being happy, then the Universe knows your true nature so you will continue to get things that are a part of your fake happiness.  But if you do your best to do the inner work of letting go of the negative and replacing it with the positive, then the Universe will send things that match your true positive thought.


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Sometimes, we can become envious of what another may have in life. You might think that they most certainly don’t have any challenges as they appear successful and happy.

Everyone has some kind of challenge in their life. Just because another has money doesn’t necessarily mean that they are happy. They could have relationship challenges or physical challenges that you have no idea about.

They are not you and you are not them. There is no need to harbor resentment, envy, or jealousy of another and their life. You can have whatever you choose in this Universe. If another has something you like, then you can manifest your own. Think how great it is that you were shown what another has so that you can think about it for your own life.

We all have challenges and we all have successes. They are all unique and different. Stick to your life,  and create what you want, and let others do the same without any judgment, resentment, envy, or jealousy.

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Do you ever get so involved in the day that your mind just goes on automatic, and that automatic mindset judges and creates negative thoughts?  Then, before you know it, your day just feels bad without any direction except to get things done.

Checking in with yourself and being conscious of your thought, are ways to help let go of any negative feelings and thoughts, are shift focus to a more positive mindset. The negative can make us feel sad, tired, and fatigued both mentally and physically so when we are having an experience that is draining, it creates even more of a feeling of negative and resistant to a positive mindset.

Check in with yourself. Make it a priority to deal with experiences in their moment so that you can let them go and move on away from the challenge. The quicker you remember to let go and find the positive within the experience, the quicker you will let go of that resistant feel of the negative.

Check in and choose the positive in all you say and do.


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‘I could be happy if…’   Many think that they could be happy if only they had enough money, or they could be happy if life wasn’t so hard, or they could be happy if…’

When we blame circumstances for our unhappiness, we are making excuses for not being happy. When we can blame something, then we don’t have to take responsibility.  It seems easier, for some, to look at their life experiences and blame experiences,  that are out of our control, for the unhappiness.

When you take responsibility for your own happiness, then something amazing happens. As you look for what makes you happy in your moments and look at what you appreciate, you will find that those less than happy moments soften.  The more you focus on the happy of your moments, even in those less than positive moments,  and shift to appreciation if happiness isn’t quite what you can muster up, you will find that cloud and illusion of unhappiness was all up to you.

So what if you don’t have enough money today. You can appreciate that you have a roof over your head and think about how happy that makes you.  So what if those around you don’t understand you.  You can find others (even if there is one or two) that are of like mind and that is something to be happy about.

All you have to do is shift your focus my friend. No more excuses….create happiness!

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You have a choice in where you life’s path will lead.  Sure, we have many elements going on around us that can feel as if it takes us down a path we didn’t want, but in those moments are the moments that you have a choice.  You can choose to go on the path that feels upsetting, resistance, and feel like you are trying to swim upstream against the current.  Or you can choose to experience the path knowing that even if the path isn’t what you want at the moment, that it is helping and guiding you and giving us lessons in life that will help us to be on the path we want to be on.

Every path leads to where you want to be.  You will get there if you accept each experience, go with the flow of life as you experiencing, keep a strong positive mindset, and just ‘float’ downstream by letting go of the resistant feeling and thought within knowing that the detour path can be just as wonderful as what you want. Deal with all the things along the path but do so with a higher positive mindset. Appreciate your path and know, and trust, that all is well and will be well.

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As they say ‘one man’s junk is another man’s treasure.’ We all think uniquely.  We all experience life in a way that is best for us but may not be best for another.  You may love to water ski yet another may not like it.  It doesn’t make either of you right or wrong.  You are just different than one another.

Remember that one man’s junk can be another man’s treasure when it comes to our life experience.  Just as one man’s treasure can be another man’s junk but neither is wrong.

Live life in the way you feel best and let others live in the way they feel is best for their life.  You are both neither right or wrong.  You are an individual experiencing life in the way that you want to.

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Have you ever got caught up in the conversation of another who is adamant and became just as adamant as they are?  Maybe you hear a speech, or maybe you are having lunch with a group of friends, and their upset and their frustrations become your upset and frustration?

It is important to be conscious of your thought when you are with others.  Know what you want, be understanding and listen, but do your best not to attach to their emotion and thoughts about their lives.  When we attach to another and their vibration, we are creating a similar vibration as to what they are experiencing and maybe it doesn’t fit into your life.

Be conscious in all you say, do, and act. Be kind, compassionate, and loving in thought when with others. Let go of another and their thoughts, if it makes you agitated or fearful, and get back to creating your own thoughts.  Remind yourself that they are living in life in their way, but you don’t have to become a part of it unless you choose too. Always check ‘within and feel what rings true for you.

Anyone that makes you feel bad about life, you want to reconsider what role they play in your life. If you create a positive life experience and someone comes into your life that is less than positive, then your positive vibrations lessens if you let them get to you.  But if you keep up your positive vibration, even in the presence of a negative person, while letting go of the negativity, then you are creating your own life experience without their vibration being involved.

And who knows; maybe they will become a little more positive with you around.

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In that moment where you are thinking of giving up on your dreams, remember this: It could be in that next moment where it all opens up for you. Or all that is happening is a part of getting you to where you want to be; maybe a little detour through some other experiences that will help you get there.

Sometimes, when we say we are giving up, something amazing happens. We let go of holding on so tightly to what we want, that just letting go releases the push against vibration of wanting something so badly.  And then, it can rush right in.

How about instead of giving up you just choose to let go of how it is going to happen for you? Let go of the worry that it may not come into your life.  Let go of thinking that life is going to be perfect when it comes.  Let go, let go, let go.

By letting go of the negatives of ‘don’t want,’ fear, worry, and holding on tight, you create open space for it to be created for you.  The bump in the road falls away and what you want can come bursting through the very next moment.

Don’t give up my friend, just let go.

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Do you trust that all is well and will be well no matter what the experience? Trusting the Universe and letting life unfold at the hands of the Universe creates many more possibilities than we could ever imagine.

When we envision what we want the end result to be, we do our best to find the perfect path to getting there. And sometimes our perfect path takes a detour or two, and then meets back up with your end result.

It is best to envision what you want but to let it unfold in the way that the Universe does it because the Universe knows every little vibration that is needed to get you to where you want to be.  But not only that, the Universe knows the path to take to get you there.  It may not have been the path that you thought was the best, but no matter as the Universe sees it all and acts accordingly.

We can’t possibly see the whole picture in the way the Universe does. So why not trust the Universe to unfold that perfect path that is built on solid ground because the Universe knew the best way?

No need to worry if you feel you are having a detour or two.  Trust the Universe as you continue to create a positive vibration, deal with all the experiences coming your way in a higher thought, and know, without a shadow of a doubt, that all is well and will be well no matter what the experience.

Do your part and trust my friend…


What do you see in the picture above?  Do you see a beautiful night sky with sparkling stars?  Or do you see that it is dark and almost scary to think of walking through that grass?

How we perceive our environment is a part of what comes into our life. When we change our perception from a fear based scenario to a positive based scenario, then we are shifting our thought in a direction that will bring more of that to you.

Take a look at how you see the world and your life experiences today.  If you find that you tend to see all the negative, fearful, worrisome ways that an experience may play out, then do yourself a favor  and shift your eyes to a whole other view of what is positive and good in your experiences and in the world, because there is always a negative and a positive in all we see, do, and say.  What one thinks is negative, another may think is positive.

What matters is what you see…


We can get into a mindset that what we want is the only way it will be. We want it exactly as we envision it to be.

But what if the Universe sees the whole experience and all the different ways it can come about for you? And what if you are stopping the process of manifestation because you are so dead set on your way that it becomes an obstacle.  The Universe brings to you experiences and people that will be helpful in taking your vibration to a match of what you want. And sometimes it is the learning within the experiences that you have to grow from in order to get to that matched vibration.

Detours happen but the detours are actually lessons and growth to take you to where you truly want to be.

No need to pigeon hole the Universe. Focus on what you want and then let go of the how. Widen the field by letting it happen in all different kinds of ways and surprises. Letting it happen means to let go of how you think it is going to open up and let the Universe bring it to you. Your job is to keep a positive strong focus on your everyday moments and your dreams and reaching the higher vibration of manifestation.

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Has the day been just so so? Then change it through your thoughts.  Make that so so day into a day of beautiful thoughts and vibrations. Shift your focus toward what is beautiful in sight, sound, touch, taste, and ethereal.

Has your day been great? Then change it up and make it even greater. Reach for higher positive vibrations in all that you are doing and your day will get even better.

I guess my point is; no matter what kind of day you may have started with, you can always create a better more positive thought and feeling. You can let go of what makes you feel negative and shift your focus to positive things, people, and experiences.

All that it takes to change your life is to change your thought. Live in thought like you want to be living.

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It is essential to your life experience to give yourself a pat on the back and appreciate where you are in life. So many feel that if they think great about who and where they are in life, then they are being arrogant and pompous. Yes, some do become self absorbed, but appreciating who you are is far from tooting your on horn.

Building self worth and confidence is a healthy way to feel good and positive about life and yourself. It’s not that you have to announce how wonderful you are to everyone, it is announcing ‘within’ how wonderful you are.

Take a moment right now and think about what you like about you.  If derogatory remarks come up, then let them go for now. This is a moment where there is no critical voice allowed. Think about how far you have come in life. About choices you have made that felt great. Think about what a beautiful light you are in this amazing world. This is an appreciation fest that you can think and feel ‘within.’

Feeling good about yourself is a part of creating a positive life experience. How about not focusing on all that you feel is wrong or negative about yourself and just accept who you are and appreciate all there is to appreciate about you?


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You can tell where you are when it comes to what you are bring into life. Let’s say that you keep having people come up to you to complain. And you wonder why so many people are complaining to you.  There  are two things that can be happening. One, you are attracting complainers because you have been complaining about life. You don’t even have to complain to others, but have the focused mind chatter that is complaining about life in general. That can attract more to complain about.

Then there is the other way. You may be attracting complaining of others because you don’t want people to come to you and complain.  And in that ‘don’t want,’ you are building a focused vibration of ‘I don’t want this!’ and then that vibration builds and brings back to your life what you don’t want.

The same goes for the positive. Maybe you have people telling you how wonderful and kind you are. Two things can be happening there as well. One, that you are attracting others to your vibration of feeling wonderful and kind. Or two, you are helping others and your life experience through creating kindness and being wonderful.  By focusing on helping others through kindness, you are creating kind and wonderful vibrations into your life.

Take a moment to think about an experience you have where you may have attracted an experience. Be conscious of it and find the moment that you felt you attracted it.  By resonating with a vibration you are creating and honing in on that vibration and it brings more into your life.

Find what you are resonating with when others talk to you. What rings true to you with what they are saying? Then focus on what you love about what they said.  Focus on what you enjoy life to be. Focus on what you feel is truth to you.  Get into a state of resonating with all that comes into being in your life.

Be conscious my friend and create…

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Sometimes we just seem to wake up on the wrong side of the bed.  And we do our best to get into a better place within, but we can have a challenging time redirecting focus toward a better attitude.

When we say just change your thoughts then life will change, it sounds so simple but in actuality it takes doing the inner work to get out of the old habit of thought and belief, and into a new more positive habit.

If you seem to have one of those days where you feel off or agitated, and you feel that you can’t get into a better frame of mind, then at least do your best get into a better balance within when it comes to your thoughts and feelings.

If you keep going to a worse case scenario in your mind or feeling as if things just aren’t working out, be conscious of that feeling you are having. Instead of getting involved in that thought, just observe it instead. When you observe instead of actively participate in a thought and feeling, you are stepping away from the emotion involved and creating balance.  Keep observing each time something comes up.  There will be a point where as you observe, you will begin to see that your thoughts don’t have to rule you. You can control where your mind goes and create balance.

The more you create that feeling and thought of balance, the more you will feel better and more positive.

Take a conscious deep breath in and let the mind know that a focused breath means you are going to let go of the emotion of it all an observe the thought.  Keep doing this until you get to where your mind begins to get back into a natural state of creating a positive vibration.


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