beth mccain 9989

No matter what, you are not to blame for someone and their choices. Even if you gave them the advice or suggestion, even if you and others told them to do it a certain way, and even if someone tells you that if it all goes wrong that it is your fault; you are not to blame. You see, you are not responsible for what another says or acts upon. If you told them how to do something and it didn’t work out the way you thought, you still have to remember that when it comes right down to it, they had a choice.  They could take your advice and see if it works for their life but no matter what, they are making the choice. You are not to blame for the results because they ultimately are the one to make the choices for their life.

There are some that want to blame you for everything in their life because that way they don’t have to take responsibility for their own life experience.  It is easier to blame than to own up to what their life is like.  But just because they blame you, doesn’t mean that you have to blame yourself. You have choices and they have choices. It is all in how you perceive life.

Are you taking on guilt and blame from another? Truly look to see if it is your responsibility to take that on. If not then let the guilt and blame go. If it is, then adjust your sails to a direction that you want to go in life and create a solve for what may have happened.  You do have a choice…