beth mccain quotes 6675

Do you have a hard time saying no? No is just a word. And when someone asks you to do something you truly can say no. You don’t have to say yes out of guilt or fear that they won’t like you if you say no.

You see, if that person is truly someone who cares about you then they will be fine with whatever you choose. They don’t have to like it but they can accept that it is your choice. If someone is disappointed in you or upset because you didn’t do it their way and they create a big drama about it, then just know that it is still okay to say no and that it is now their problem if they can handled your answer.

No doesn’t mean you are being selfish or rude unless you say it in that way. You can say no and still be loving and compassionate. It is just a word unless you decide to make much more out of it.