Ask yourself what it is that you want in your life. What direction would you like your life experience to take? Do your best not to base what you want and what direction you want life to take by what someone else wants you to do. There is nothing wrong with discussing and talking over what is best for you but ultimately make your choices based on how you feel and think.
Sometimes we can get so wrapped up in what everyone else wants us to do that we can forget that we have a choice and we are the only one who has to live with that choice. If you have someone that you are making choices with, just remember to think of others feelings and thoughts but to keep in mind how you feel as well. Not what you feel or think from the logical ego or what you think and feel from the fear based mind but what you feel from within. Your voice within will never steer you wrong.