When we have some sense of order and it comes out of controlling then that order is full of resistance and tension. Then we have order that we create that isn’t flexible. It is full of rules and orders. That kind of order is full of struggle and fears. The kind of order that is calm and peaceful comes from being flexible and going with the flow kind of order.
This is a constant fine tuning, isn’t it? We can go extreme and become controlling or we can have such a rigid sense of order that we aren’t flexible. It is in your awareness, the action, and thought of staying calm, peaceful, and flexible that will create a nice steady flow in life.