We all have different views on an experience. Two people can have the same exact experience but see it in a completely different way. Our likes, our dislikes, our environment, our upbringing, our reactions to experiences, how we perceive life in general, create a view that is unique to you and you alone. I can’t live your life and you can’t live my life. That is a part of this wonderful experience called life. We can each see each others’ views from our perspective and do our best to understand another and their view but we will never be exactly the same. We are all unique, divine individuals with freedom of thought.
Live your life and allow and accept others to live theirs. No one sees things as they actually are…we see them as we are. Where you are at this moment is how you will see an experience. If you want that experience to change you can’t expect another to make the change. It has to be you that does the change within your perception and then you make a choice of where to go from there.
It always has and will be your choice how your life is experienced my friend.