It is up to you to do what you can with your life. Everyone has some kind of hurt from the past…everyone. Everyone has memories of the past that have to be worked through. No one is perfect. Everyone has problems. It is a part of being human. It is up to you to move beyond what you feel is keeping you down. It is up to you to learn from the past but then let go and move on. Dwelling over the past will only keep you stagnant and in the same place. Releasing feelings from your past will create movement in your life and ‘lighten your load.’
Let go and move on my friend.