Find the deeper meaning behind why you want something. Find the essence of what you want.  So you may want money or a new career or relationship, but what is the essence of what you really want? Do you want money because you want a sense of security or maybe a relationship because you want to feel loved?  What is the higher vibration that you want to experience more often? If it is feeling loved, then begin to imagine what it feels like.  Find the feelings in something you may already experience in your life so that you can understand and know what it feels like. Imagine the essence of what it is that you want and THAT is what will bring it into your life.

That’s when life changed for Lee and I many years ago.  We had wanted life to change.  We had wanted to love what we do, have enough money to do it, and wanted life to be full of ease and joy.  We weren’t expecting life to necessarily be perfect–meaning without any contrast–because contrast is needed in order to learn, grow, expand, and experience consciousness. But we wanted it to happen with ease and joy.

We wanted to wake up every morning with a spring in our step and just love to live.  So we changed our ways.  We stopped focusing on what we lacked at the time and began to wake up with that spring in our step and keep checking in to make sure we were feeling and thinking the essence of what we wanted; joy, helping others to become who they were, the financial means to do just that, and feeling grateful for all the Universe was providing and would provide as the pieces of the puzzle fit together.

So here we are today.  Finding the essence, focusing on all the good in our life and not on what was missing, and living and experiencing those thoughts and feelings put us right where we had envisioned.  And it continues because we are never done creating but the essence of what we wanted life to be is there.  Happy sigh…life.

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