Ever watch a movie and you can’t imagine how all the characters are going to be okay or how it will ever work out, and then at the end you see that all is well and has a happily ever after? Think of this when you experience a few problems in your life.  When using the Law of Attraction we visualize on the end result and never worry about ‘how’ it happens.  Just like in the movie there are twists and turns, but you know it will all end as it should.

Next time you have a problem or are going through one of those times, focus on the ‘happily ever after’ waiting at the end of it all.  Each problem will work out in some wonderful way as you focus only on the happy ending.  You see, when you focus on that happy ending it has already begun to build a bridge to what you want from the ‘ether’ world, to the physical world.  Keep focus and just know… Happily ever after and all the problems will be solved one by one until you arrive at Happily Ever After.

The other day I went to do some shopping.  I had my usual smile on my face and my positive thoughts as well but each person I encountered was less than positive.  I’d say, “Good morning.  How is your day going?”

And they would reply, “You’re kidding right?  Do you see where I’m working?!”

Hmmm… Someone wasn’t too happy and everyone, for those first few greetings, were  stinkers.  When this happens I always check my own inner compass to make sure this isn’t a reflection of how I am feeling.  That is always my first thought and then when I’m not having any of those negative feelings then I realize that maybe being positive is what is in store for me…and for them.  I do a ‘quick adjustment’ in my mind and stay on focus.  Positively positive…

I kept walking with pep in my step and continued on.  I headed to the office supply and encountered the same thing.  Each time I greeted someone they would say something negative so the next person I took a different approach.

“Can I help you ma’am?” An older woman asked.

My usual greeting.  “How’s your day going?”

“Don’t even ask.  It’s my first day back so this is my Monday.”  She was tired and upset.

“Well…at least you’re one day closer to the next day off.”

“Ha ha,” she said with no emotion.  I changed the subject.

“I could use some help.  I’m looking for the mailing labels.”  She took me over to where they were.  Her manager came over to read her the riot act about something.  Her shoulders drooped and she took it.  What else could she do?  It was her manager.

Obviously she felt unappreciated.

I found my labels and turned to her.  “You know.  I really appreciate you helping me.”

“Sure,” she said without even looking up.

“No, seriously.  I APPRECIATE you.”  She looked up.  She got the message.  She needed to feel appreciated.

I ventured further.  “He does not sum up who you are.  You deserve appreciation for the job you are doing here even if you aren’t enjoying it.  So thank you for your help and I hope you have a better day.”

Remember if someone is being less than positive and it isn’t a reflection of how you are feeling then there is much more to their remarks.  THEY are the ones having a problem.  You don’t have to take it personally.  Usually they aren’t feeling appreciated or they aren’t enjoying life.  They may not have figured out ‘happiness’ yet.

So I went up to pay for my labels and the woman who had helped me walked by.  She was whispering under her breath, like a mantra, “He does not sum up who I am.”

All those negative cashiers were signs to look at them.  What do they need from a positive person?  Do they need me to smile or tell them wonderful things…or do they need nothing from me…or maybe…they just need to hear an encouraging word and feel appreciated.

The funny thing is I didn’t encounter any more stinkers that day.  Maybe I just needed to be aware of what the Universe was showing me so that the one phrase to the one woman would help guide her on her journey…maybe…

Sometimes we just need an encouraging word, don’t you think? :)

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