You will always be choosing thought while in this physical world.  You will always be attracting to you what you most focus on.  There is negativity in this world but you can choose to focus on the positive in any part of your life.  As you retrain your mind to find that positive it will become easier and easier for you to put your focus to the positive.  At first you may feel as if you have to struggle to remember but keep changing that focus to the positive.  The more you do, the more it will become your natural state of mind and it will become just as easy as it was to focus on the negatives in life.

Peanut  has her costume hung up and ready to go and she keeps asking me about her hair and how are we going to do it.  She’s wearing a renaissance gown of green and gold for the big night.   When she puts it on she looks like a princess and then…she adds a fake dagger to her belt.  She’s a princess warrior I’m told.  Proof that she is growing up…no more cute little girly costumes.  Amazing the changes kids make from ten years old on.  It happened with all three of my adult kids at the same time.  They always have great creative thoughts as they grow but when they hit ten years old, they take it to a whole new level.