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Doubt breeds fear. Anytime you have doubt you are beginning to create some kind of fear within. And fear creates mental and physical ‘freezing.’ You’re not able to move forward. Fear creates a paralysis within you. When you are visualizing and focusing on the life you desire you can’t have any mention of doubt. If you want a beautiful wonderful future you have to let go of fear. And when you have fear or doubt and you put a faith or a belief into the mix, self contradiction is then created within your own unconscious mind.
Yes it’s Sunday here in Oregon so you know what that means…big family breakfast and a lot of sitting around. 
I can smell the bacon and biscuits wafting from the kitchen. I love the smell of bacon but I don’t eat it. I will have a biscuit with some marionberry jam though!
Don’t forget to catch RADIO LOA this evening. It’s on every Sunday night at 9:00pm eastern on WARL in Boston/Providence and it streams live on www.Universal7radio.com . If you happen to miss it just head over to our web site and you’ll be able to catch it at anytime there. This week we have Sandi Kimmel and Patrick Murphy. They are two wonderful LOA practitioners. Sandi writes and sings beautiful music and Patrick is a part of the whole process. You should hear their story. He has some great advice on the economic times and how to get through them with the LOA. Come join us!
Do you already act as if you have what it is that you want? Does your mindset live the life that you want?
This is how you get what you desire. You mentally decide it is the life you want and you begin to make changes to live it. You already have the tools within yourself. Use your thoughts to imagine that it is already within your reach and you are living the life you want. No worries about what others think and get inspired that you can have all that you can imagine. It will manifest guaranteed.
Lee and I are working on the last edits of our new book and then it will be sent in to be looked over and published. We love every project we were on and this project is based on our Law of Attraction Boot Camp. Looking forward to seeing it in print and getting it out to whoever could use it.
I think I’ll take the computer out on the deck to work. It is a beautiful clear blue sky and nice and cool this morning. Have I ever mentioned how much we love living here?!!
Think about this for a moment. Every moment in history, when a discovery or an idea was put forth, became a hard fact when many people began to believe over and over again in something. Every experiment started out as an idea. Each idea was tested but was put forth through thought. You know the drill…the more you think on something and put out vibrations and see it working… than it does. Now think of the power behind something like this when more than one person decides that this is the way it will be and before you know it…it becomes a hard fact. Here’s the interesting part…it becomes a hard fact…to them and the more that believe, the more solid it seems to become. This goes for everything in this physical world. Anything is possible isn’t it?!
Yesterday was a warm one. It got up to 93 degrees here. Very unusual for our neck of the woods but I’ll tell you what…this wonderful house stayed as cool as cool could be. It’s wonderful to live in a house that you created within your mind and then…there it is even better than you could have ever imagined! Love that Universe!!
What lies within greed? A fear of not having enough.
What lies in hatred? A fear of being harmed and not feeling good enough about your own self.
So maybe if we go beyond the fear and really look at what fear is it will free us of the sheer feeling of fear. You are always good enough; you will always have enough because you are an eternal being within that has everything it needs. Fear is just a state of the mind…it isn’t you…unless you decide that it is you.
Our schedule changed all over the place today. It’s like having a backwards day. This is going to be fun! The Universe is shaking things up for the better…it can get better than this?! So off we go to have a nice breakfast out and then the day will begin. If you hear hysterical laughter over on the Oregon coast…no worries…it’s Lee and I going about the day!
Everyone has their own point of view. If you really want to understand other people, you have to listen.
When you are in a confrontation with another person you are both attached to your own perspectives and feelings. Try to mentally step back for just a moment and ask yourself if you can try to understand this from another point of view. By stepping back it requires you to listen genuinely to the other person.
This doesn’t mean that you don’t say what you think from your understanding but by opening up and understanding another point of view it will be a lot easier to speak without confrontation. When you are able to listen, the space between you and that other person has begun to change.
Then there is the time where it feels as if there is a lack of communication and the voices escalate. When this happens stay centered in your own self so you don’t get caught up in your reaction. It really is okay to simply feel your feelings instead of reacting in defense. When you are able to let the reactions of the mind come and go without the defense of standing your ground the feelings pass and you have chosen a new reaction.
This skill takes a lot of practice but you will find that the results are amazing within your own self.
Lee and I will be working on the Indicator magazine today. We’re especially excited about this issue. It deals with turning your own the financial world around as well as a wonderful write up on Guy Finley and the inspiring methods of fearless living. The magazine is such a joy to put out. We all get in a certain mode when it comes to the magazine and it is such a sense of accomplish when it is all finished and they send it out to be printed. We appreciate all your e-mails, questions, and stories that are in the Indicator. You truly become one of the authors of the magazine.
Remember today is another day to create…choose wisely!
This is a special Law of Attraction YouTube radio show focusing on how to think limitless.
When you have made a conscious effort for your mind to be free of anger fear, or greed, than past negative events have less of a chance of manifesting. You see, we are protected by the energy space of the present and the positive thoughts of our minds can block or change past negative moments from affecting our present and future. So the same goes for anger, fear, and greed…when you fill your mind with repetitive thoughts of intense negative those are the feelings that will come to fruition and they can change the positive past. It is all about the present because what you do with your present will determine what will affect your own future.
What a great weekend we had with our family and friends. Everyone has left now but we have more family coming in today.
The weather is beautiful and I got in a nice long walk last night all by myself with my headphones on. I love it when I catch the sky at just the right time and it just has that ‘ethereal’ feel to it. I am thankful for my family and the Universe.
When focusing on your desires ask for stronger trust in the Universe. You can’t be helped unless you ask. It would encroach upon your free will if the Universe did everything for you without you asking and visualizing so make sure to ask and always thank the Universe.
Another beautiful day! Yesterday we had a great time. We had BBQ chicken, corn, and salad straight from the garden. We rounded it off with lemon cake…perfect summery kind of food!
Part of our entertainment was Peanut. She had bought a small recorder so she was following everyone around yesterday recording everyone. She had told a bunch of jokes into her little machine and we were all howling in laughter.
You know when you get in that particular space when you are meditating…you know the one that feels euphoric and you feel pure, light, and ‘one’? Next time you meditate, whether it is in a traditional way or through a hobby, take notice of the wisdom of the emptiness you experience. There is no attachment or fear of anything…just oneness. This is when you become one with the Universe and life. Oneness is a wonderful feeling and connection.
Li Po said it very well: We sit together, the mountain and me, until only the mountain remains.
I woke up extremely early this morning so I was able to get in some extra visualizing and meditation in. I love it when that happens. The extra boost of energy and calm before the family troops come in.
My family is a crack up to watch. None of them turned out like me and what I mean by that is I am a quiet person and do my best to listen to what everyone is saying. If you get me excited about something I can talk just like the rest of them. Where the ‘crack up’ is… they love to talk at once and the focus changes over and over again. I do my best to listen to each one but end up sitting back and smiling as they all entertain each other! Dad with all his stories of ‘when I was a kid’, the older kids talking about movies, and my in-laws talking politics. Quite a range of ideas on all accounts! I guess the point is…I love my family!
Be happy for others when they have something good happen to them. Even if it is someone you don’t care for. Did you ever stop to think that maybe the Universe is sending you a sign to let you know to keep envisioning because it’s on the way? When you see someone receive something that is good, this is a sign that wonderful things will be in store for you as well.
You have the choice to be happy for them or be resentful. The resentment will bring you more to resent, the happiness will bring you more to be happy and thankful for. It’s as simple as that!
We have a quiet day planned. I’ll be making strawberry shortcake and chicken tacos for dinner. I’m going to get it all prepared this morning so I can have the rest of the day to answer e-mails and take a nice long walk with Peanut.
Usually we head out on Memorial Day to the beach but this year we are the destination point for family to meet. The fridge is loaded and the sunscreen has been bought. Tomorrow the festivities begin! I can’t tell you how much ‘book material’ I hear when family comes. Do you know what I mean? Some of the stories they tell are just too good to keep to ourselves!
It only matters what you think about your life. It doesn’t matter what others think of your life unless you let ‘what they think’ be a part of your life. When you ‘buy into’ what they say about you and your dream it becomes a part of your own belief.
It is when you envision what you desire with trust that it will manifest in your life.
And what will bring it to you even more joyously and more permanent? Enjoying the process of getting there. Let it unfold before you and enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!! Because once you get what you envision, you will think of something else to create. The key to a balanced life of creation is to be present in each moment of life and enjoy life as it unfolds. Instead of just thinking of what will happen in the future or thinking about the past, start living in the now of life and enjoy the ‘unfolding’ of your life as it becomes what you focus on.
We are staying home for Memorial Day weekend. Everyone is coming here for some fun and remembrance of our ancestors. Tomorrow I’ll be heading out with Peanut for the big grocery run at Costco. We’ll be having BBQ ribs, homemade potato salad, fruit salad, and strawberry shortcake on Memorial Day. I’ll pick up loads of hamburgers, hot dogs, and soda pop for the younger crowd. I’m looking forward to a weekend with family and friends.
The weather is supposed to be clear as a bell.
Do you have any jealousy within you? Jealousy can be an all consuming mind state if you’re not careful.
If you are someone who seems to get jealous…look at it, feel it, recognize it without any judgment or getting upset with you. When you condemn yourself for being jealous, you intensity the feeling of not being good enough which creates even more upset feelings within yourself.
So begin by asking yourself what is the reason for your jealousy? When you can find the reason, the real reason, you can begin to become free of the emotion that can hold your desires back.
Remember that if someone else has something you want, you can have what they have as well. Just because someone else gets it first is no reason to feel badly. It could possibly be a sign from the Universe telling you that you’re next.
If you want what they have you can envision it into your own existence without the feelings of jealousy.
Into town we go! We have some recording equipment to pick up in town so we’re making a morning of it. It’s such a beautiful drive this time of year. You can’t even count the many shades of green as far as the eye can see during the spring. The road we take into town is like a rain forest. It is almost dark through that stretch of the road due to all the trees and foliage and then there are bursts of sunlight here and there. Such a beautiful drive. I’m looking forward to seeing the Universe living and breathing in the Alsea rain forest.
If you knew without a doubt, no matter the experience you are having, that you are always safe, secure, and loved, would you enjoy life and be worry free? You would?
Good…there is no doubt. The Universe is always with you providing you a path to follow…you just have to listen within and trust. You are always safe, secure, and loved.
Recording RADIO LOA today! It is one of my favorite things to do. Lee and I are able to ‘talk’ to you and have a wonderful time talking about what we love to do best…positive thought and how the Law of Attraction works in everyone’s lives.
Peanut has finally broke out all her summer shorts and tank tops. It’s still a little chilly in the mornings but I think kids are immune to the chill. They run around outside, without a sweater, in freezing weather claiming “I am NOT cold! I am warm!” The funny thing is…I remember doing that as a kid and I really wasn’t cold! Peanut affirms it enough…the LOA must be working in her favor!
Make a pact with yourself that you are going to be positive and shift your focus to the positive all day long. Tell yourself, “I’m going to be happy and positive today. I’m going to open the door for anyone walking through it. I’m going to smile at people I don’t even know. I’m going to be appreciative of everything that comes my way. I’m going to dwell on my past that had positive experiences. I’m going to look for the positive in myself and other people. I’m going to look at my future as the most positive it has ever looked.”
Do you realize if you kept your focus in the positive that life would flow so easily and it would become a natural state of being?
Heading out for routine doctor stuff and personal errands. Had to fast today and yesterday for my doctor appointment so I’m looking forward to having breakfast out with Lee after the formalities are all done. Oooo…coffee too!
Each and every one of us on this Earth wanted to come to experience physical life. We all came here through the same method and knew how exciting it would be to be a spiritual being experiencing a physical experience. This is an eternal Universe that we live in. You are eternal just like every one else. You have as many opportunities as the next guy. You will always be creating. Once you create one experience you will always be creating more. When you are able to realize what we all are, you can relax. No need to be disappointed with who you are, where you’ve been, or where you want to go. You can begin enjoying where you are at this very moment and keep your focus on what you want the whole time you are getting there.
Lee and I will be in the studio for meetings with our creative team. We enjoyed the interview with Guy Finley on RADIO LOA and many of you e-mailed and let us know how much you enjoyed it…thank you! If you missed the interview you can find it at our web site.
Have a day full of intentionally creating!
Just wanted everyone to know that Guy Finley best selling author of the Secret of Letting Go will be interviewed tonight on the RADIO LOA on WARL AM 1320 in Boston/Providence at 9:00pm eastern U.S. time. It will stream live over www.universal7radio.com as well. And if you happen to miss it, the radio show will be able to be heard at our web site the following Monday. www.bethandleemccain.com
If you are new to Guy or are a long time fan his message is clear and you don’t want to miss it. Guy is a down to earth positive thought speaker and author who sends the message of fearless living ‘loud and clear.’
Join us for the fun and joy of positive thinking and the Law of Attraction.
Don’t be concerned of ‘what is’ in your life. Envision it the way that you want it to be. When you send out vibrations of the way that you want it to be, the Universe will send back to you a vibration that matches yours. It is that simple. Now go out, have a wonderful day, and see the possibilities of the life you want appear right before your eyes through your own determination and focus through the LOA.
Lee and I will be ‘working’ today. We don’t really call it work because we enjoy it so much…we’d rather call it ‘play.’
Yesterday we had a nice day by the ocean with Peanut. There were so many people out enjoying the sun and beach. I love ocean towns. They have a certain ‘feel.’ The locals always seem to be friendly. Lots of little antique stores, seafood local restaurants, and oceany kind of merchandise. We enjoyed dinner at Mo’s and just had a ‘happy sigh’ kind of day.
It will happen when you envision and make a mold of what it is that you want.
It will happen when you stay strong and trust that what you desire is really there for you.
It will happen when you ‘act as if’ it has happened within your mind.
It will happen when you take action within yourself to let it happen.
It will happen when you begin to realize that others’ opinions are just that…opinions from their own perspective of life not your life.
It will happen when you begin to see all that you are thankful for now.
It will happen when you go about everyday enjoying the process of getting there.
It will happen when you trust the timing of the Universe.
Then…it will happen!!
We’re going to be taking a ride to the coast today. Nothing better than going to the ocean when it is a beautiful clear sky. The Oregon coast can get chilly at times but during this time of year it is in the ‘perfect’ zone. Warm weather, cool water, and the lapping waves. I’m looking forward to the sounds of the waves and the overall ‘endless’ feeling it gives. The ocean always gives me a sense of peace.
Enjoy your day!
Emotions can get so caught up in the moment and breed more of the same emotion creating an even bigger ‘attract back’ from the Universe. Sometimes just a small shift in thought will take your physical self in a better direction.
Remember you are a spiritual being having a physical experience. Keeping that in mind, next time you have an intense negative emotional experience…stop…and instead of saying to yourself over and over again, “I am sad. Oh…I’m just so sad” switch it to “This is sadness. This is what sadness feels like.” The feeling will then begin to pass as you observe the feeling and understand instead of getting caught up in the moment of its drama. You are then a spiritual being having physical experience instead of a physical being thinking it is having a physical experience.
The fog has lifted and the most beautiful blue sky has emerged. Today is going to be a warm one but not so warm that we need to break out the air conditioner. This time of year is one of my favorites. I wake up to all different kinds of birds singing. What a way to wake up!
Peanut came in wearing shorts and a tank top. She’s hoping it will be much warmer!! She’s on that ‘end of school year is coming’ feeling. I remember that feeling…those last few days of school…the outside would be calling to you and it was hard to concentrate on what you were studying. Everyone would be wearing shorts to school those last few days. It felt like school was overlapping into your summer vacation! Good times.:)
Keep giving attention to what it is that you want your life to be. All’s it takes is a shift of focus. Focus on how you want to live; there will be more of what you want in your life. Stop worrying about what is ‘seemingly’ in the way. No one can keep you from the life you want…except you. You begin by stating what you want, find some wonderful feelings and thoughts in the life you have now, and appreciate everything that comes your way and is already with you. All those good feelings will turn that image of what you want into reality. Live life with ‘in the now’ feelings of joy and abundance and that is what you will have.
I guess I better get moving. We have two RADIO LOA interviews to tape, lots of e-mails to answer, and a trip into town. Peanut will be staying home to finish her school day so it will be just Lee and I. Even though we are with in eyesight of each other 24/7 it’s nice to find some extra time to ourselves.
We both love what we do. We feel honored that we can help others find their path. It’s a wonderful thing to see when someone finds their wings and fly.
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