Lee and I got an email that we have actually never seen before. We had someone write us a letter to tell us that her friends are deliberately messing her up when she is applying the Law of Attraction intentionally. She said, “When we go places together and I am focusing on a parking space, they say out loud that they don’t want a close parking space, over and over again, and we end up getting a spot far away. They also are constantly saying the opposite (on purpose) of what it is that I want. It hurts my feelings and they think it’s funny but I think it’s mean. What can I do when someone is purposely messing with me”
Can you believe this? What kind of so called ‘friend’ would be so insensitive. The kind that sees a change for the positive in someone and can’t handle it.
Short answer is this: Sometimes when you begin to apply the Law of Attraction intentionally, the ‘old’ part of life will rear its head. It doesn’t want you to change. It doesn’t want to be left behind. Her friends see the change in her and don’t want to be left behind. They don’t want her changing for the positive because they don’t want to lose her as a friend. It’s funny how people act when they don’t want to lose someone…they push them away.
This is the Law of Attraction in action though. She is being pushed into another direction than her friends. Not that she has to give up her friends but there are many other people out there that are in exact alignment with what she is vibrating out. She has to make a conscious choice and realize that she may not be the same as before with her friends. Her friends are still vibrating where they were but she has moved forward and into a more positive vibration space. They want her to stay within their vibration so she is having to think about what she wants or what she doesn’t want.
Let’s hope she chooses to continue to grow and learn in the Law of Attraction and not draw this kind of behavior to her. Less focus on the ‘don’t want’ and more focus on the ‘do want’. The Universe will take care of the situation for ‘her’ good as well as for the ‘friends’ good. See it happening with ease.
She should begin to focus on a calm and positive relationship with her friends. But remember when you are dealing with others’ creations, you can not make someone do something they don’t want to in their own creation. So there is two ways it can go when you focus on the positive relationship: They will begin to align with her and it will become a positive relationship or they will move away from her higher vibration. The Universe knows best of what she is ultimately focusing on.
It is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo windy today! That usually means change is in the air. I can’t wait…I love change! It makes me know that the Universe is working on all the desires. The magazine is a little slow getting out. The publisher had a problem on their end. The Universe slowed it down for a reason and I’m great with that. It’s so much fun to see all the boxes when the magazines are ready to head out. They take a picture for us. I’ll post it when they get them.
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April 16, 2008 at 2:09 pm
Attracting Abundance!
This is a great topic. I also had to deal with strained freindships when I first began practicing Attraction as a way of life. Some of my “old” friends adjusted and came along for the ride, but others I had to let go. In the end, it all works out for the best . Keep up the good posts!